22 Weeks Pregnant and Counting…
As you may know if you follow my blog, I am currently 22 weeks pregnant (and counting) with baby #2. Being pregnant the second time around has proven to be a little different than it was the first time. Maybe it has something to do with chasing around a 3 year old at the same time as dealing with extra pregnancy sleepiness, nausea and weight gain? Whatever the case may be, I know my hubby and I are lucky to be blessed enough to have another nugget on the way. I will admit though there are several things going through my mind as we anticipate our bundle of joy in November. So, I thought I'd blog about it here to see if anyone else has had these feelings or is going through them now. Here goes…
1) I am nervous about helping my current son transition from being an only child to a big brother. I know it will be challenging and even though he is excited right now he may get over that quickly when baby is here.
2) I am nervous about losing the baby weight for a second time. Even though I have the tools in my arsenal to drop the pounds, I have not been perfect so far during this pregnancy (and I've heard it is harder to lose the weight the more pregnancies you have). I struggle with cravings for pizza, cheeseburgers and sweets giving in too frequently. I also struggle with the heat and being able to exercise outside and even just having the energy to use the programs I do have like Turbo Fire or Turbo Jam to exercise inside. I let excuses get in the way too often as well. I don't want to let myself make excuses during the second half of this pregnancy or once baby is here.
3) I am nervous about working full time with a very demanding job as a teacher, making time for my business, and having a new born joining our current family. Last time my little guy was 4 months old before I had to return to work (because of summer break) and this time I will be lucky if I get 8 weeks due to the time of year he will be born. I know my little guy won't be sleeping through the night and I worry about keeping up with everything. I didn't have to deal with that last time around.
4) I am nervous about having one on one time with my hubby. It can be hard enough balancing everything now (work, toddler, exercise, business etc.) as it is. Add another newborn in to the mix and our "schedule" will be blown out of the water!
5) I am nervous about my son thinking I don't love him anymore because I will be busy with the baby. He has been in a BIG daddy phase for awhile now and I know he will probably want me WAY more once the baby comes. I know there will be times I won't be able to give him what he wants and that breaks my heart.
So, do any other moms or moms to be have these fears? I'd love to hear in the comment section below.
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My name is Nichole. I am a working mom who is passionate about living a healthier life for myself and my family. I am also an Independent Beachbody Coach. I am not a professional fitness instructor or nutritionist. As always please check with your doctor before beginning a new fitness or nutrition program. This website is intended for educational purposes only.
I didn't realize that we were due so close together. I'm 22 weeks this week, too (Due November 26). I'm having all of the same worries and anxieties that you are. While I haven't craved as much junk food this time as I did last time, finding time/energy to exercise is difficult. We aren't getting 100+ degree temperatures, but it's cold and rainy here in Alaska most days and it's difficult to find time to get out. Just hang in there. As someone once told me, if we couldn't do it, we wouldn't be where we are. You can handle it. Keep your head up!
I knew our due dates were close, but not that close either! I’m so glad I’m not the only one having these feelings. Our things in common go even further though! Baby #2 for us is also a boy and our first is named Noah
Baby #2′s name is undetermined!
All your concerns are so very normal, at least you are aware! My kids were spaced like that too and I found that being a big brother was so special for my oldest, and the love your oldest needs will be met by you and Dad and grandparents ….ya dont forget grandparents (I am one now) LOVE IT! Your oldest will grow from this experience so much and you will be so proud! Time with your husband….GREAT that you are aware there too, so very important to have date night, I hope you have grandparents close so you can get away or even just stay home together! Always take time to talk to each other every day! My newest grandson is 2 and 1/2 months right now and is sleeping 10-12 hrs (this is their 2nd child also) the book BABYWISE is awesome have you heard of it?? It will help you to help your child sleep through the night and many other things, Max(my little grandson has been sleeping through the night since 10 weeks. Best of luck to you! My second son and his wife are expecting Nov 11th with their first child! I cant wait!!
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